What is love
INTRODUCTION
all, trust a few, do wrong to none. Shakespeare.is love? This is one of
the most difficult issues that concern humanity. For centuries, people try to
find the answer and find out exactly what love is. Philosophers, writers, poets
and musicians give their definitions and statements, but what love is, in fact,
no one can say.is that feeling you get when you meet the right person.is how
many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe
love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that
magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as
easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't
there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.its
existence, a man tries to unravel the mystery of love. Love is very different,
and these kinds of love are intertwined in our lives in a tangle, enriching it
with new emotions and experiences. Love can be between two or more individuals,
linking them together by ties of intimate feelings, faith and unity. Depending
on, among whom there is love, it can also be different, and this, too, know
all. The depth of this feeling, too, can be infinite.life, people fall in love
at many stages. It is very possible for every person no matter their age to
feel or fall in love. However, there is a certain stage in life where we reach
and everyone seems to want love. I'm talking about the teenage years and love.
When a teenager falls in love, it is referred to as teenage love. Teens are
very volatile people and this is pretty understandable. It is the first time in
life to feel the urge to love the opposite sex. This is on the onset of their
physical growth. Their hormones are usually referred to as running wild and
this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are
not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a
child. This is the time where most youth act out and when it comes to the
matters of the heart, a lot of them fall in love. Teenage love has sometimes
been referred to as not being real love.this problem is going to be touched
upon in this work. I am a teenager and I believe that teenage love is real
love.
What is love?
What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for
the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has
love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is
friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all
the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal
truth in the history of mankind. is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor
it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the
truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of
life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of
your matter of affection coming true. can occur between two or more
individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust,
intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the
soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not
be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother
loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension
can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be
created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this
can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have
some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe.
Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.
In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness,
compassion, and affection. Love is central to many religions, as in the
Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels.
Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on
compassion. Or as actions towards others based on affection.English, the word love
can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging
from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal
attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" can also refer
specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual
love of eros (cf. Greek words for love), to the emotional closeness of familial
love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship, to the profound oneness
or devotion of religious love. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined
with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to
consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.in its various
forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to
its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the
creative arts.word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct
meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to
express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on
"love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words
for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it
doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.
Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent
debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't
love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like),
love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and
more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly
contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic
overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love
is often applied to close friendships.is one of human emotions, the scientific
study of which was devoted to a set of works: from Stendhal and its
crystallization of love and ending with modern by studies of hormonal
components of the experience of love. studies conducted by psychologists,
philosophers and religious leaders worldwide, have shown that, despite various
forms of love, every kind of love in their own creative, and it is love that
rules the world, most clearly manifested in the works - poetry, music,
literature, painting and sculpture. Love necessarily implies the compatibility
of individuals. Very often it is the compatibility is the deciding factor in
love - can be absolute unanimity of views and a large community of interests,
combined with an attraction to each other, but if there is no compatibility,
then love is doomed. Of course, when it comes to passing or short-term
relationship, the aspect of compatibility is not so important. But if we
consider the special relationship in the future, the compatibility is the key
to success in long-term romantic relationships. Nobody is perfect, but we must
learn to understand and feel each other, and psychological and physical
compatibility of individuals helps to build relationships. All loving and
passionate people are dependent on a combination and interaction of four
hormones: dopamine, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen. That is, for each
model the behavior meets one or another hormone.history, philosophy and
religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last
century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In
recent years, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology,
anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the
nature and function of love.on context, love can be of different varieties.
Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and
interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love
and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire,
preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different
relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and
complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it
is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been
many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our
world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers,
parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other.
Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the
throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with
such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the
people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such
gruesome apathy. the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many
speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music,
poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of
dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and
neuroscience has also done to it. portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with
a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology:
Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined
as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by
both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is
more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into
picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible
than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that
we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship.
Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful
relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must
always remember that no body is perfect. what is love -- real, lasting love?is
the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.is the
attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.word
"goodness" may surprise you. After all, most love stories don't
feature a couple enraptured with each other's ethics. ("I'm captivated by
your values!" he told her passionately. "And I've never met a man
with such morals!" she cooed.) But in her study of real-life successful
marriages ("The Good Marriage: How and Why Love Lasts"), Judith
Wallerstein reports that "the value these couples placed on the partner's
moral qualities was an unexpected finding.", too, we seek goodness in
others. Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence, and talent (all of
which count for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to
love.
IS A CHOICE
If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just
happen -- you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus
on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this
easily, you'll love easily., there's a huge distance from here to the far more
profound, personal love developed over the years, especially in marriage. But
seeing goodness is the beginning.focusing on the good, you can love almost
anyone.
ACTIONS AFFECT FEELINGS
Now that you're feeling so warmly toward the entire human
race, how can you deepen your love for someone? For example, if you want to
become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but
giving charity will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to
be loving -- and that means giving.most people believe love leads to giving,
the truth is exactly the opposite: Giving leads to love.is giving? When an
enthusiastic handyman happily announces to his non- mechanically inclined wife,
"Honey, wait till you see what I got you for your birthday -- a
triple-decker toolbox!" that's not giving. Neither is a father's forcing
violin lessons on his son because he himself always dreamed of being a
virtuoso.giving, as Erich Fromm points out, is other-oriented, and requires
four elements. The first is care, demonstrating active concern for the
recipient's life and growth. The second is responsibility, responding to his or
her expressed and unexpressed needs (particularly, in an adult relationship,
emotional needs). The third is respect, "the ability to see a person as he
[or she] is, to be aware of his [or her] unique individuality," and,
consequently, wanting that person to "grow and unfold as he [or she]
is." These three components all depend upon the fourth, knowledge. You can
care for, respond to, and respect another only as deeply as you know him or
her.
OPENING YOURSELF TO OTHERS
The effect of genuine, other-oriented giving is profound. It
allows you into another person's world and opens you up to perceiving his or
her goodness. At the same time, it means investing part of yourself in the
other, enabling you to love this person as you love yourself.more you give, the
more you love.is why your parents (who've given you more than you'll ever know)
undoubtedly love you more than you love them, and you, in turn, will love your
own children more than they'll love you.deep, intimate love emanates from
knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time -- which nearly
always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is
usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation.
These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding
day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will
hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife give more and more to each
other.. Jill Murray (author of "But I Love Him: Protecting Your Daughter
from Controlling, Abusive Dating Relationships") writes that if someone
mistreats you while professing to love you, remember: "Love is a
behavior." A relationship thrives when partners are committed to behaving
lovingly through continual, unconditional giving -- not only saying, "I
love you," but showing it.together, share your joy and sorrow, understand
each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others
need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your
matter of affection.the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent
debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't
love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like),
love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and
more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly
contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic
overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love
is often applied to close friendships.love (Prehispanic sculpture from 250-900
A.D., of Huastec origin). Museum of Anthropology in Xalapa, Veracruz,
Mexico.discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal
love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves
caring for or identifying with a person or thing (cf. vulnerability and care
theory of love), including oneself (cf. narcissism). In addition to
cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also
changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic
love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior
existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.[of
the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced
to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number
of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all"
to The Beatles' "All You Need Is Love". St. Thomas Aquinas, following
Aristotle, defines love as "to will the good of another." Bertrand
Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed
to relative value. Philosopher Gottfried Leibniz said that love is "to be delighted
by the happiness of another."is sometimes referred to as being the
"international language", overriding cultural and linguistic
divisions.
Chemical basis
Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian
drive, much like hunger or thirst. [Helen Fisher, a leading expert
in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly
overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust exposes people to
others; romantic attraction encourages people to focus their energy on mating;
and attachment involves tolerating the spouse (or indeed the child) long enough
to rear a child into infancy.
Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes
mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone
and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.
Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific
candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual
mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall
in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including
pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which act in a manner
similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to
side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an
intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally
lasts from one and a half to three years.the lust and attraction
stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for
long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships
lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on
commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on
things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the
chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term
relationships have. Enzo Emanuele and coworkers reported the protein molecule
known as the nerve growth factor (NGF) has high levels when people first fall
in love, but these return to previous levels after one year.
Psychological basis
Psychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon.
Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued
that love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion.
Intimacy is a form in which two people share confidences and various details of
their personal lives, and is usually shown in friendships and romantic love
affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the
relationship is permanent. The last and most common form of love is sexual
attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as
romantic love. All forms of love are viewed as varying combinations of these
three components. American psychologist Zick Rubin sought to define love
by psychometrics in the 1970s. His work states that three factors constitute
love: attachment, caring, and intimacy. developments in electrical
theories such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges
attract, analogs in human life were developed, such as "opposites
attract." Over the last century, research on the nature of human mating
has generally found this not to be true when it comes to character and
personality-people tend to like people similar to themselves. However, in a few
unusual and specific domains, such as immune systems, it seems that humans
prefer others who are unlike themselves (e.g., with an orthogonal immune
system), since this will lead to a baby that has the best of both worlds. In
recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed, described in
terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and affinities.Western authorities
disaggregate into two main components, the altruistic and the narcissistic.
This view is represented in the works of Scott Peck, whose work in the field of
applied psychology explored the definitions of love and evil. Peck maintains
that love is a combination of the "concern for the spiritual growth of
another," and simple narcissism. In combination, love is an activity,
not simply a feeling.psychologist Eric Fromm also maintained in his book
"The art of loving" that love is not merely a feeling but is also
actions, and that in fact, the "feeling" of love is superficial in
comparison to ones commitment to love via a series of loving actions over time.[
In this sense, Fromm held that love is ultimately not a feeling at all, but
rather is a commitment to, and adherence to, loving actions towards another,
ones self, or many others, over a sustained duration. Fromm also described Love
as a conscious choice that in its early stages might originate as an
involuntary feeling, but which then later no longer depends on those feelings,
but rather depends only on conscious commitment.
Comparison of scientific models
Biological models of love tend to see it as a mammalian
drive, similar to hunger or thirst. Psychology sees love as more of a social
and cultural phenomenon. There are probably elements of truth in both views.
Certainly love is influenced by hormones (such as oxytocin), neurotrophins
(such as NGF), and pheromones, and how people think and behave in love is
influenced by their conceptions of love. The conventional view in biology is
that there are two major drives in love: sexual attraction and attachment. Attachment
between adults is presumed to work on the same principles that lead an infant
to become attached to its mother. The traditional psychological view sees love
as being a combination of companionate love and passionate love. Passionate
love is intense longing, and is often accompanied by physiological arousal
(shortness of breath, rapid heart rate); companionate love is affection and a
feeling of intimacy not accompanied by physiological arousal.
TEENAGE LOVE
Some people think of Teen Love and smile. It's not real love,
they say. Puppy Love, they call it. Is it puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it
true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of
the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. Those people, I think, have very
short memories, and no longer recall the realities of their first love
experiences. While few expect teen love to last a life time, that hardly makes
it less real. Half or more of all adult love doesn't last a lifetime either.
Teen love is very real and powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are
the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. Who among us,
after all, can ever forget our first love? Thus the first love which has
happened during your teen age cannot be totally forgotten.it puppy love? Is it
trial love? Is it true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved
with members of the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. But when getting
involved with anyone it puts feelings on the line. A friend once told me that
she was going out with a guy not because she loved him, but because she wanted
something to do on weekends. When the relationship was over, she cried. Why did
she cry? Was she actually in love with him? Or did this mean that she would
have to pay for her own movie ticket for a while?of the relationships that
lasted about a month (on and off) has taken several months from which to
recover. It was so difficult for the girl to recover form it.What if he was my
first true love? What if he is my only true love? What if I am destined to live
the rest of my life alone because our fated romance died? You see, many real
feelings were put on the line during that very short period of time and she was
so much involved in that sort of love.she was only 16 does this mean that her
feelings are not mature? Is teenage love a different kind of love? I believe
that teenage love is the first step to developing normal healthy relationships
in the future. I've heard many people on TV talk how they will never forget
their first love. Maybe that's because it taught them how to love. So perhaps
teenage love is a steppingstone toward the paths we may choose in our lives.
Love, whether new or old, is a way to share important things with a person you
are close to and trust. All people need that. Teenagers need love more than
anyone. Who else better to get love from than another teenager who's going
through the same transitions that you are? Who's to say what kind of love is
valid? All love is valid? This is what they had to say.you are seventeen you
aren't really serious. There can be many stories of the teenage lovers and as
such you can find that they turn out to be successful as well as not
successful. Rather we find that this teenage love has more of a sexual
inclination. First love - a special feeling, especially because it is - a new
sensation never before experienced in its entirety. Certainly, until
adolescence some manifestations of this experience undoubtedly arise - in the
form of interest and desire to make friends, play together in games, etc., but
rather a feeling of closeness and affection, rather than actual love. First
Love enables us to develop the qualities that have hitherto been unknown to the
child. This - the development of a sense of trust, compassion and empathy, the
desire to explore their inner world, analyzing the character traits and
actions, the desire to find common topics of conversation, be interesting and
deep conversationalist. According to many authors, the state of love is typical
for a teenager, but it has no explicit sexual motive and more like a romantic
affair, where reality and fantasy form the interlacing. Young love.
Adolescents. They - the most incredible - wonderful love. But parents, just,
and fear it. When they see their child, that kiss at the entrance, their covers
strange horror. At that time, they completely forget that experienced when
something is the same. Man cannot live without love, it must in the process of
getting some experience of life, including love. If a young man or woman comes
up with some unattainable image of a loved one, it exhausts itself in a trap.
When it comes to love, she was not warm, because it does not match the ideal.
And it brings some pain and may even cause mental disorder. Adults need to
explain to children what love is, you have to love certain people for what they
have is that in any case you cannot create a collective image of a loved one,
trying to think of it. Need love the most peculiar man in his youth. However, the
natural and inevitable in this age surge of passion is not always called itself
love, quite often at a great feeling of love is accepted. Love implies the
uniqueness of the chosen one and, accordingly, the harmonious fusion of the
three drives - the soul, mind and body. I also love this merger no emotional
attachment is based on only one (maximum two) of the impulses: to respect,
friendship or desire.are different feelings that are similar to love but not
her, it is:
. Attachment - it's a habit to see the person and
communicate with him in due time.
. Enthusiasm. It often occurs in young girls with
respect to the stars of cinema and music. However, enthusiasm can be projected
on the people who are close by. Psychologists say that this feeling is the
closest to what is commonly called human love, or rather a true love.
Signs of love
1. If your love is genuine, you would be interested in
the personality of your elected representative at large. In your feelings will
be present and physical attraction, but only along with many other attractive
qualities for you.
. When you love truly, then you like all or most of
the qualities in another person.
. True love always comes slowly. You've got to know
someone before you can truly love him, but this takes time, a lot of time to
really know someone. Prolonged courtship much better short.
. When you love truly, your senses will be more warm
and affectionate than would range from ardent passion to cold indifference,
they will be more permanent
. If your love is genuine, manifest your best
qualities and you strive to become even better.
. When you really love, your lover man - the most
important person in the world for you, but relationships with family and
friends do not lose their value.
. When you love to truly have a better chance that
your parents and most friends approve of your choice.
. When you really love, the absence of a loved one
only sharpens your senses. True love must stand the test of distance and time.
It is based not only on the physical attractiveness of a man, she takes it all,
as a person. Time spent together helps you to "grow together".
Therefore, for parting you would like to lose their part. Another man, even
very attractive, cannot fill the emptiness in your heart. At a distance, you
certainly can feel anxiety and sadness.
. When you really love, you may have disagreements,
but true love is going through them, and fights are becoming less frequent and
severe, each pair must learn to resolve conflicts.
. Love is selfless and devoted. Are you going to do
everything possible to bring joy to others. You are primarily interested in
what you can give and not receive.
CONCLUSION
is work. It is a struggle, especially with him. It is the
desire and ability to forgive, to give to give all that you have . It is faith
in something pure and bright, no matter what . This is an internal force, which
subsequently fills us and keep "afloat" . We cannot love to order by
mail or come up with myself, but to educate themselves in the love we can and
that's the way love this. Love - it is a higher sense of rights is a very
strong sympathy and spiritual closeness. Love is rich emotional experiences,
noble sentiments. This is the most beautiful thing is, this is the keyword of
our lives. In love, it is important to the concept of free choice and
self-denial. Readiness to do everything for the welfare of a loved one - one of
the fundamental principles of this feeling.makes people happy. Inspires, makes
us the birds, butterflies flutter in a pair with each other, leaving behind a
life all little things in life, troubles, problems and troubles. And even the
biggest problem becomes only a trifle, which is not difficult to solve. Because
we - TOGETHER. And when we're together - we are the mountains and the sea on
the shoulder to the knee.in love its vitality and energy of another being, man
shares with them their joy, and increasing its own, expanding their
understanding of the world, enriching personal vision, experience, knowledge
and experiences, which together constitute his spiritual wealth. In love a man
gives to get, and gets to give. True love is a man burst response of energy,
movement back towards generosity. 'Davani induces another person to become a
giver, too, and they increase the joy brought into their lives. In the gift
itself is the force that gives rise to love. " involves caring about
another person, an interest in improving his life and development. Where there
is this, there can be no true love. Love - it is the responsibility of loving
mercy, and for my loved one. This respect for him and actively penetrate into
it to knowledge, but without violating the right to have secrets and remain a
person. Passionate about learning from each love is different from the
thoughtless and indifferent contemplation of thinking that is used as a
learning tool soulless world. This knowledge through a spiritual approach,
identification with the beloved person, feelings of identity with them. Man,
deeply and truly loving someone, cannot love only him alone. Their gracious
qualities of his love extends to other people around them. Loving, personally
enriched by this feeling, it gives the excess to others in the form of kindness
and warmth, sensitivity and humanity. There are several types of love:
brotherly, motherly, erotic love, the love of man to himself and the love of
God. The need for love lies in human nature itself. However, love - not an end
in itself, shared values, mutual understanding and
assistance - that's the purpose for which love is the necessary impetus.
Equality is perhaps the most solid and reliable foundation of love. Love does
not tolerate violence, oppression, she is dying from it. The most important
condition of deep and sincere love is a complete trust in each other, which
leads to intellectual and emotional understanding, without which love cannot
exist.love is very different from the love of an adult. True love in
adolescence is extremely rare, since the physiological maturation occurs faster
mining. Often occurs in teenagers love or infatuation. The desire to look older
is appropriate behavior: courtship and interest in the opposite sex, notes,
first date, first kiss. But not always this behavior is dictated by your needs,
the more spiritual. Many teenagers start dating someone just because they are
afraid of being alone. But it will not bring anything but trouble and bad
memories, and is unlikely to be enjoyable. At this age are often afraid of
someone else's opinions, especially those of peers. Afraid to be "some not
so" (not so). The best, the best time to start relationships with the
opposite sex teenager must determine for himself, or rather, feel. If he really
likes someone from their peers and want to know about him (about it) more, we
can assume that the time has come. Ideas about what should be the favorite
person, often at odds with reality. Ideal image usually contains a lot of
inflated, fictitious claims, and other important qualities are not recognized,
go unnoticed.
ATTACHMENT 1
sayings about love
“In life should be love - one great love for life, this
justifies Causeless seizure despair that we are exposed.” Albert Camus.
“There is not force more powerful than love.” Stravinsky.
“Once you understand what love heals all, and love - is all
that are in the world.” G. Zukav.
“Love - a priceless gift. The only thing that we can give it
and yet it you've got left.” Leo Tolstoy.
“Love - is the lamp and illuminates the universe; without
light of love Earth would become a barren desert, a people - Handful dust.” M.
Braddon
“ Oh how women and men can understand each other, because
they both want different: a man wants woman, but woman wants a man.”Karinthy-
is so vast concept that no one can never fully express to the end of the whole
range of feelings and emotions associated with the word "Love".
ATTAchment 2
AGE 13 - 17
ATTACHMENT 3
love feeling teenage
AGE 13 - 17FIRST LOVE AGE
ATTACHMENT 4
you believe in love?